Well that happened to be the secret sauce. I think it was mentioned in this very thread that the aux radiator on the 1M/N54 isn't very well thought out from factory, it's not easy to put them in series and this is why the tubing that diverts coolant to it is so small (beyond my memory). As a result, we still get poor cooling.
I switched from the OEM setup, aux oil cooler and aux radiator to dual oil coolers straight away rather than single then dual. I also do not run a thermostat anymore. To aid warmup I tape the front inlets. Little price to pay. Logistically it's difficult to fit the an external / remote thermostat. I bought the Improve Racing one, ended up not using it after a quick look.
The only way I'd use it is if it lines up with common blockoff plate holes (these are important,they're not randomly placed) and weld 90deg SS bungs. Then screw it in from beneath. At this point, may as well just buy something like MSL's billet thermostat. Only negative of that one, imo, is -8AN male fittings.
What's wrong with -8AN fittings? Would you want bigger?